How to Gain Instant Social Proof

Tuesday, 24 March 2009 02:57

If you guys have been to any social setting such as bars or clubs, or on easy cases, finished high school, then you know that having social proof is king. Social Proof is the key strategy "Naturals" use without them knowing it. When I didn't know what I was doing, all I knew was becoming mister popular was who I had to become. Just like an attractive piece of stock, social proof creates a bidding war between women and people around you, thus giving you a power card to use.

Why is it good to have social proof?

- Value Affirmation (Yes, I said value. People in social settings are visual. They see you with other cool people; your perceived value goes up)

- Gaining Allies (Strength in numbers)no matter what people say, a group of 15 will defeat a group of two. One of the important goals for massive social proofing is to gain countless allies - girls who will help further the seduction, girls that will make you look even more desirable, girls who will cockblock or brag for you, guys who will offer to "back you up" and protect you, buy you drinks, and tell HER you're the man. I once did Social Proofing SO WELL at this place that the entire group WENT HOME SIMULTANEOUSLY! I was surprised! They liked me so much that they were happy for their friend to be taken home by yours truly - this is what I am talking about guys.

- An increase in CHOICES and OPTIONS - when you're starving and you take what you can get because you NEED it. Put yourself in a Las Vegas buffet and you will care less about the outcome because you've got too many choices. This allows you to screen, taste-test, and eventually make a smarter choice when it comes to women you'll meet in a bar or night club. Make her meet your standards, not the other way around!

THE BIGGEST MISTAKE when guys approach and meet women in social settings is that they pay way too much importance to the progression of the interaction. They initially start ok but then they continue to occupy the person's time too much and become more like a nuisance in thought. It gets to the point where she is saying - "Who is this person?", "Why is this person talking to me?" or "When will this guy finally leave?"

If you've received some phone or skype coaching or have taken any of my workshops, you'll soon find out that in a social setting, it is best to hit and move. Like a kickboxer you get better with movement and flexibility, not putting a big deal on any of your interactions.

1) Always approach a group FIRST over a single woman - having a group by your side as allies communicates just so much more value.

2) When you introduce yourself, speak your name LOUD and CLEAR - you don't want to be remembered as "that guy" or I don't know who he is-guy!" If the venue is so loud, make a funny "code name" by putting a fun word behind your name like "Raunchy Ricardo" or "Naughty Nick" or "Talladega Troy", and this makes a quick reference every time they see you and they will make an effort to remember your name or code name.

3) Take time to ask logistical & group hierarchy questions such as "You must be single handedly the most fun people around here - what's the occasion?" or "Who's the Bachelorette?" Remember KEY NAMES (take notes or add them to your cell) because later on, you'll need them.

4) Now open up your initial conversations, talk briefly but like a confident likable person END your conversations on a high point, then move on and continue with your activities. End your conversation with the group with something like "You guys are cool, I'll catch up with you later"

5) As you move on to another group and start chatting with them, take the time to wave, raise your glass, or wink over to the initial group you talked to somewhere in the middle of the chat - this is important!

6) Learn how to put the 2nd group "on hold" by saying "Hold on for a minute, my buddy Jen is calling meisn't she adorable?" pointing to the first group. You then walk over to the first group re-initiating. This creates Social-Proof Magic!

Those are just a few guidelines and there is much more to it. If you apply our technique, you can dominate any venue and get instant social proof - just like that. This is no magic pill or PUA stuff, this is the real deal as it allows you to be yourself and become incredibly successful with all women. What are you still waiting for?

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