How To Get Girls If You Are a Geek, Part 2

Written by Joseph Matthews

Thursday, 26 March 2009 09:46

Continued from Part 1 of this article.

Step #3. Take a break from video games

Being a geek and loving video games pretty much goes hand-in-hand. And video games are awesome, so they're nothing to be ashamed of.

However, some geeks use video games as a way to replace a non-existent social life. They get their "human contact" fix by chatting with their guild mates in Everquest, or those lame n00bs on Xbox Live, and don't feel the need to go out and meet real people.

Well, put that X-Box controller down and unplug your PS3. If you wanna meet women, you're going to have to take some time off from the video games.

As an avid gamer myself, I know how they can rule your life if you let them. Before you know it, it's three in the morning and you're trying to kill one more boss and get one more power up so you can increase your gamer score.

However, all this time spent on video games keeps you away from the girls! If you resolve to take a slight break from your gameplay time, you'll find that you will have much more time to meet and hang out with women.

Now, I'm not telling you to give up video games all together - that's crazy talk! But make meeting women a priority over the next Zelda game... just for a little while.

Step #4. Get out of the house

Geeks have a really bad habit of staying indoors - sometimes with other geeks, but most of the time by themselves.

Let me be clear - you will NEVER meet women unless you get out in the "real world." (And no, internet porn does not count as meeting women.)

Take some time after work and go hang out somewhere for an hour. It can be someplace you enjoy, like a bookstore, a coffee shop, a dog park - wherever.

Just remember... go somewhere there are actually GIRLS!

Going to Gamestop and blabbing it up with the male clerk there isn't getting out of your house either.

How about this: go somewhere where shopping happens, but try a place that women might actually shop in. There are plenty, as they love to do it. That way, you can interact with them.

Another important thing - don't bring your laptop or iPod with you! Bad, bad, bad. Those are distractions. Sitting in a coffee shop playing World Of Warcraft on your laptop will do you little good. Not having any distractions will force you to focus on the task at hand, which is meeting some chicks!

Step #5. Meet some girls

Now that you've made it out of the house, you gotta start talking to some women.

Try and keep these meetings light. Don't try and get a date off the bat. Just start random chit-chat with girls. If they seem cool, then (and only then) ask for her number.

Try and set up dates to meet with the girl. Get together for coffee or drinks. Do fun stuff that the both of you enjoy doing. Don't start revealing your geekiness until at least the third date, after she's built up some comfort around you.

Use the internet to your advantage. Sign up for a few dating sites. This will also help you keep your date calendar full.

But most importantly - HAVE FUN!

Meeting women can be just as fun as any video game you've ever played. You just have to know the right way to do it.

Just be cool about it. Understand too, that geeks are as cool as any other guy, so don't try to change that. When you give a woman a chance to know you, both of you will see that.

They'll just need time to get used to the idea. Try some subtlety, or you might freak her out and she'll bolt. In time, she might be stomping you in Warcraft and calling you newb.

About the Author:

Joseph Matthews has been teaching guys how to meet women since 2004, and is widely known as an expert in the field of confidence building and dating advice. If you want to learn more about how to meet women, check out his complimentary newsletter.

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