Flirting Without Speaking, Part 5

Written by Joseph Matthews

Friday, 17 April 2009 01:54

In the last article of this series, I let you know just how important of a role your gestures play in flirting.

In this one, I'll cover how your facial expressions play a very important, if not central role, in your flirting success.

Now when most people think of facial expressions they usually conjure up images of Jim Carrey making a silly face, or some other comedian perhaps.

Believe it or not, the facial expressions we display take on a powerful role in what we signal to the other person. And conversely, how they see us as well!

Understand the importance here - the look on your face can be very off putting, and it will have NOTHING to do with your actual looks. If you scowl naturally, or come across as "expressionless", you can scare others away.

It's always a good idea to take time to understand yourself. Look in the mirror. Get a handle on your natural expressions, and see how those can be of advantage (or disadvantage) to you.

For now though, let's take a look at some facial expressions that are akin to the gestures I wrote about in the last article.

The eyebrow raise is a prime example. You can raise your eyebrow at someone from across the room to acknowledge them. It's a lot like saying hello nonverbally.

Try this with a stranger. You might think it's a bad idea, but understand that you are INTENTIONALLY trying to create some confusion, as they will be wracking their brain trying to figure out who you are.

It creates an opportunity to enter into conversation, but beware. It can backfire and end things before you can even begin.

If the person you do this with finds you attractive, it generally will work, however. It will probably be evident in their facial expression.

The big issue here, and one that most men run into, is that facial expressions are the most common way that someone expresses deceit when it comes to conversation. We look at each other's faces most of the time, so it's evident that is the first place we try to hide our feelings at.

False expressions can hide our true feelings. Take for example, the social smile. While useful, it's annoying to have it done to us. However, there are signs, beneath the surface, that will show us the truth!

I'll get into WHY they give false readings, and HOW we can use facial expressions to heighten our flirting!

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