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Written by Piper Washington
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Friday, 28 August 2009 12:42 |
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So you've decided to date a man that's married, or more appropriately, you've decided to have an affair with a man that's married. The operative word here being 'affair.' Affair is defined as a 'a usually secretive or illicit sexual relationship' in this case with a man.
So what do we know right off the bat? You have to keep it a secret (shhh don't tell anyone) and you have to realize it's about sex more than it's about a relationship. In fact, the word relationship, the way you probably think of it, doesn't apply to having an affair with a married man.
On that note, let's make this very clear: You are not going to be in a relationship with this married man. The reasons? He's already in one. If you are in the business of breaking up relationships, also referred to as a 'home-wrecker' then you're on your own. If you are serious about having a fun relationship with a man that is married, it is much better to realize right at the start that this is not going to be a 'real' relationship.
This means the following: a) He wants to keep it quiet and he doesn't want you calling him at home or on his cell phone at inopportune times. This would include anytime he may be with his wife or kids. b) He doesn't want you to take this anymore seriously than he is planning on taking it (which believe me, isn't serious at all), and c) If he does decide that he's falling in love with you, then you should run for the hills.
The fact of the matter is that if he'll cheat on his wife, he'll cheat on you and this means you should be very careful not to get involved in the affair in an emotional way. You simply need to remember that this is all for fun and when it gets too serious, you should definitely consider getting away from him asap.
If you are married and want to have an affair with another married man, then this could be the perfect opportunity to have fun with someone who is on the same page as you. You will both understand that it needs to be kept quiet, and that at least for the time being, you are both just trying to get something that can't (for whatever reason) be provided in the bed you share with your spouses.
Piper is webmaster for http://a-secret-affair.com. For more about having an affair with a married man head to http://a-secret-affair.com/affair_with_married_man.html
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